Who are you, really? …

Signs are everywhere in life… πŸ˜‰

The warning signs are often the strongest and too important to ignore especially in relation to people. Gut instinct is always right and you should listen to it, always. Everyone knows your gut has no reason to lie to you.

I’m sorry I didn’t take more notice of mine over the years as it was correct everytime. Every single time. Even with friends over the years, right back to school. Some have not changed a bit at their core. You will notice it yourself once you realise the traits and patterns, they will fit with people you know and some will completely surprise you.

The problem is we don’t like to judge people early yet we will do it anyway, we make snap judgments naturally based on first impressions, even if we knew the people we don’t know them like we think we do. They project what they want you to see.

Patterns start to appear as we get to know them better and these refine our judgment, at times it can turn 180 degrees and they cause it but they don’t realise it! That’s a big shift!

What’s interesting now is the fact we have all the information at our fingertips to help us understand people and their traits better, which will help us deal with different people better in our lives, now and in the future, in any given situation. Surely it’s an important thing understanding people better, for your own self preservation.Β Yet we rarely utilise this wealth of information.

Why is that?

I think I have an idea why … and is there a catch 22? …

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Amphibology or something like that…

Connected… πŸ˜‰

I saw lots of these along the beach as a few kids had been making these stacks over the half term holiday. Why not. πŸ˜‰ Thanks for the photo opportunity kids.

A post of a difference today… Inspired by someones love of words and their constant use of words many hardly understand, if it makes you “sound” clever, I guess you’ll use them. πŸ˜‰

I like it simple and understandable. All Airs and Graces is not an endearing vibe in my opinion.

But…

There are some great odd words out there. Could be fun. Luculent to one maybe. πŸ˜‰

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Portland on Facebook…

Chesil beach sunset

Looking forward to days ending like this again. πŸ™‚

Seem’s spring is not far off arriving, I have seen a few daffodils up but not yet open though, a bit chilly at the moment. Warmth soon be here! Always seems early around the south and having a sea air all round us helps. πŸ˜‰

Portland is a great place to see, but better yet, you don’t have to be here to enjoy it’s beauty, yeah, it’s better to the naked eye but… just check out all these great photos and more on the groups on Facebook…

Here are a few to have a look at…

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Be horrible and you get somewhere

No Ope

Valentines?? um… πŸ˜‰

Great to find a pile of invisible cards this morning… πŸ˜‰

Regardless… you should be telling ya partner you love them everyday if you have one.

Some people have no idea though, strange thing relationships and stranger still are people.

But what bothers me is …

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Heavy black shadows…

Feel weighed down like that at times, mostly just for being me, fed up with that sometimes. I almost feel like leaving Portland and go somewhere completely new where I know no one but I wouldn’t be happy there either. My head and my hassle go with me.

Fact of life…

Depression and anxiety just makes it horribly worse, yes I do suffer from it, you would have done at some point in my shoes!

Maybe it doesn’t seem like I suffer it but that’s part of it, having to have a smile on face to show the world.

I am at a big crossroad in life and I know it.

Do I want to carry on as things are? No… to be honest.

What can I realistically do about it?

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I’m no photographer but …

Hardly a sunset you want to miss… πŸ˜‰

The end of a very long day taking photos all over the Island. Around 600 that day, and probably only got 40 good photos. 😯

This is an interesting thing really, as I read or hear of people saying about themselves “I can’t take a good picture”… well, not many of us can if we only do a few, that’s the thing, we have to go out and take 100’s possibly just to get a couple of really good ones. Even professionals will do that.

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