Well… had an interesting idea for a post from my friend Missy… My next secratary… 😆
Now I have to get some crappy work in order to justify that! 😛
Anyway… Missy… Ya famous now! 😉
Full of ideas, nuttiness… but this was at least an interesting idea for a post.
Now… what would you say about the picture there? 😮
“OMG… she is nice…” or something along those lines… Highly likely I bet! 😉
Or if you are somewhat blind… maybe… “she is ok…” !!
In that case… you really should have gone to bloody specsavers man!! 😆
The attraction factor
What makes us attractive, why do some people attract each other, is beauty skin deep … what makes something/someone attractive or worthy etc… what are the properties we should be looking for in other people we choose to surround ourselves with, in whatever capacity.
So many questions Missy!
Lets roll around together with that …
You seen her jugs??? …
😆 well, what was YOU expecting?
Men are shallow… ya right missy! Well apart from this blurk… as you say! 😛
The truth is, we are all wired this way, you ladies too, that’s fact and no point fighting it, we would all do well to accept it.
But what an interesting thought process we started on facebook faceache, one that no doubt all of us think about at times… mostly when we are young, when we have no real idea as the lack of experience is telling.
It often takes us several relationships to know where you “fit in” IE, “she/he is out of my league” is often said, it’s an important factor in life too.
Who chooses where we fit?
We do… we work this out over the course of a few relationships, even though every relationship is unique it’s often that we find patterns, we all know that is a truth, some girls always go out with assholes, different assholes but assholes all the same… some guys always choose ditzy blondes, or fiery redheads… whatever! 🙂
Is beauty really skin deep?
In a word, YES on meeting… that is we make up that decision faster than we know… blink of an eye is all it takes most of the time, most men don’t know it, but it’s not just the beauty of the girl, it’s often the unconscious notion of have beautiful offspring, likewise women also take into consideration the gene factor… but more often than men, they are aware of it and more consciencley choose.
It’s not a coincidence that women usually instigate divorce after a longish marriage, the kids are grown somewhat… chances are the man is not attractive to them like they were… IE you got the gorgeous kids, so now you want to have an attraction for you… not for a genetic reason… selfish reasons, yes but completely understandable. 😉
What makes us attractive
100 men could look at the same gorgeous women and all find her attractive, yet all will find something different that’s attractive about them…
So many things make the difference with all of us, far too many to name, the truth is, it’s small things, we can see the beauty in everyone, it may be just a small thing that captures the eye, more often than not I find hands a big part of attractiveness, may seem odd, but hey ho I AM odd! 🙂
Nothing worse then seeing lovely ladies with manky hands, manky nails.. no thanks! They ain’t touching my… oh wait, let’s not go there! 😆
With the ladies, 100 women could look at one good looking man and of them, 30% won’t even like him… the rest all to varying degrees for various reasons, some won’t even see him!
Ladies.. go into a bar filled with men and you will agree many of them men are almost invisible to you, yet with men, they scan the room different, they see all the women, then ignore most…
A bit of a difference there wouldn’t you say? 😉
Many would say, Missy, you got stunning eyes, or a gorgeous smile… or cracking jugs… 😆
Me, I say all of them lol… but I know you, I know what is the main factor with you… your personality, or more accurately, your crazy sense of humour… you drag the Kenny Everett out of everyone! 🙂
Why do certain people attract each other?
This largely in my mind depends on where you are in the circle of life, your age, if you have kids (their age too) the kind of things you like doing, all these circumstances effect it, without us even thinking about it at times but the question is a good one, certain people do attract certain people, that saying “opposites attract” must have some merit… Yin and Yang… Chalk and cheese… Missy and me. 😆
Back off Missy!! Oh, just a little bit, so I can gaze… 😛
The key for me is, what is it you need from a relationship, that should be the bearing on who you attract, who can give you that…
Who can make you feel the way you need to feel, rather than want, as they are close but the results can be a gulf…
I can’t think of this as a cut and dry thing, we change, things change, what attracts us changes, what we see as attractive in others changes… nothing stays the same, ever! (apart from my youthful looks!) 😆 … 😛
What should we be looking for in other people
That depends on too many things, but there is one basic truth, you don’t… when you look for it, you never find it. 🙂
What I’d say is, what can you offer that others who you would like to attract will notice… 😉
The stupid thing is attraction works like buses, nothing happens for a while, then two or three people start liking you… why?
Because people want what they can’t bloody have, that is why some people try “stealing” other peoples women, blokes, the chase all just to confirm to their own little minds that they can, regardless of the pain they cause others… they don’t care, sadly.
So, missy… what say you? Food for thought? 😉
Does it answer any questions or thoughts you had?
All that from a bloody single bloke!!! 😆
So Missy, forget the old ginger dipstick who hurt ya, when ya ready, give us a shout… I can grab me some Missy magic! 😛 😆