And if you don’t want to pass on the wankers name to your sons, you can always ask your ex if she would like your sons to take her surname.

Joking aside Rob, the one piece of advice I’d give you is this:

write down all the positive things you want out of life and create a vivid dream image of what you would like.

Focus on these positive things every day and make it your goal every day to do only ONE thing that will take you closer to that dream.

I wanted to live abroad. I do. I wanted to be able to work from anywhere, at any time – my dream image was that I would sit on the beach, whipp out my laptop, plug it into my mobile broadband phone and do the work.

Bar doing that at the beach – I have done that in a coffee shop.

All because I dared to dream the positive dreams and because I dedicated time to focus on those positive things.

My dreams turned into “nearly reality” because I got what I asked for, but in a slightly different way. specific details will be different ( like the type of job) but in the main, I got what I wanted.

Jon

Cheers,
Jon

I wouldn’t call you an arselicker… I have noticed so much more of it, including the bashing, BOTH have got worse, and it is one reason I have changed.

It makes me feel sick, literally.

Thats why it seems I have changed, I haven’t, its all this bringing up bad stuff for me.

Rob

Your story is one of the most disturbing I’ve ever seen. To be embarrassed like that as a child must have been very difficult for you. I now have a very different insight into why you’ve been acting the way you have.

Why the change though? You did not act as nasty as you have been lately before your absence online. You were happy and it showed in your actions.

I’ve seen you become angry and rude with some of your friends lately (including myself). This is not the Rob I know. You have begun to take out your personal angers on those that actually care about you as a person and it truly isn’t necessary.

As far as arselickers are concerned, you are very quick to point that finger lately. Assuming that anyone that says something positive about a “guru” is kissing ass. That isn’t always the case my friend. Personally, I’m friends with anyone that I’ve stuck up for. You may see my comments as kissing up or trying to push myself to their level, but it simply is not the case.

I am just like you. I have always stuck up for the underdog. If we were friends as kids, I would have been the first one to help you get your Dad back for the awful things he did to you. If you ever needed me now, I’d be the first to hop on a plane to the UK to help you.

Remember who your friends are bro!

Your attitude is something that only you can change. I’m sure many of us would like to have the old Rob back.

Ross Goldberg